Apologies for NY Post link but interesting phenomenon

  • CantaloupeAss [comrade/them]
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    11 months ago

    being incurious of others' feelings and experiences, especially family

    wow you just described the dynamic I experience with my entire family, both sides, to a person. I swear to God I go home for holidays and just sit there being talked at, without being asked a question, for three days, and then leave without having opened my mouth.