Dating apps are a special sort of awful. When my bf and I got on tinder looking for casual side dates it really exposed some imbalances - he'd swipe on basically any girl he might be slightly interested in and had almost no matches, while I found myself raising my standards a lot because I'd match with just about everyone I liked, as a pretty average looking trans woman.
Like 90% of the matches I got led to nothing ofc - dudes just tryna bang or people who I stopped finding interesting, or people who missed the part where I said I'm trans - but I still probably arranged my bf more dates than he found himself. Just being a woman completely changed how I experienced the app.
Had some fun dates though. Slightly less horny than Grindr and a lot of cool bi chicks in my area.
It wouldn't surprise me if they would purposely screw over some users, then turn around and sell that data to companies promoting masculinity or beauty-enhancing products.
Actually, they probably do this to every user in some way. Fucking capitalism rewards this kind of behavior, especially when the US doesnt have any laws forbidding it.
Yeah, numbers game is in women's favor that's for sure, it kinda turned the gross "sexual marketplace" thing libertarians talk about into a real thing w/ supply and demand and all that lol
Dating apps are a special sort of awful. When my bf and I got on tinder looking for casual side dates it really exposed some imbalances - he'd swipe on basically any girl he might be slightly interested in and had almost no matches, while I found myself raising my standards a lot because I'd match with just about everyone I liked, as a pretty average looking trans woman.
Like 90% of the matches I got led to nothing ofc - dudes just tryna bang or people who I stopped finding interesting, or people who missed the part where I said I'm trans - but I still probably arranged my bf more dates than he found himself. Just being a woman completely changed how I experienced the app.
Had some fun dates though. Slightly less horny than Grindr and a lot of cool bi chicks in my area.
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It wouldn't surprise me if they would purposely screw over some users, then turn around and sell that data to companies promoting masculinity or beauty-enhancing products.
Actually, they probably do this to every user in some way. Fucking capitalism rewards this kind of behavior, especially when the US doesnt have any laws forbidding it.
Yeah, numbers game is in women's favor that's for sure, it kinda turned the gross "sexual marketplace" thing libertarians talk about into a real thing w/ supply and demand and all that lol