linxiaotu [she/her]

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Cake day: January 31st, 2022

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  • linxiaotu [she/her]totechnology*Permanently Deleted*
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    3 years ago

    Dating apps are a special sort of awful. When my bf and I got on tinder looking for casual side dates it really exposed some imbalances - he'd swipe on basically any girl he might be slightly interested in and had almost no matches, while I found myself raising my standards a lot because I'd match with just about everyone I liked, as a pretty average looking trans woman.

    Like 90% of the matches I got led to nothing ofc - dudes just tryna bang or people who I stopped finding interesting, or people who missed the part where I said I'm trans - but I still probably arranged my bf more dates than he found himself. Just being a woman completely changed how I experienced the app.

    Had some fun dates though. Slightly less horny than Grindr and a lot of cool bi chicks in my area.