Dating apps are a special sort of awful. When my bf and I got on tinder looking for casual side dates it really exposed some imbalances - he'd swipe on basically any girl he might be slightly interested in and had almost no matches, while I found myself raising my standards a lot because I'd match with just about everyone I liked, as a pretty average looking trans woman.
Like 90% of the matches I got led to nothing ofc - dudes just tryna bang or people who I stopped finding interesting, or people who missed the part where I said I'm trans - but I still probably arranged my bf more dates than he found himself. Just being a woman completely changed how I experienced the app.
Had some fun dates though. Slightly less horny than Grindr and a lot of cool bi chicks in my area.
Dating apps are a special sort of awful. When my bf and I got on tinder looking for casual side dates it really exposed some imbalances - he'd swipe on basically any girl he might be slightly interested in and had almost no matches, while I found myself raising my standards a lot because I'd match with just about everyone I liked, as a pretty average looking trans woman.
Like 90% of the matches I got led to nothing ofc - dudes just tryna bang or people who I stopped finding interesting, or people who missed the part where I said I'm trans - but I still probably arranged my bf more dates than he found himself. Just being a woman completely changed how I experienced the app.
Had some fun dates though. Slightly less horny than Grindr and a lot of cool bi chicks in my area.