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    • Interloper [none/use name]
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      3 years ago

      except for personality ones

      sounds like that's a standard. but if someone truly didn't have any standards i would either suggest standards as a way of locating a suitable person (and to a large degree, valuing yourself) or if you truly accept all people as they are (which i'm skeptical of, for example i wouldnt date a chud) then maybe that's a more open hearted view of people than i'm prone to understand, but more power to you. if that's the case, unfortunately tinder is working against you but luckily it's hardly the only way to meet people even if it is probably most convenient. but if you have no standards then i think you could meet a suitable person literally anywhere if there's mutual interest.

      my inclination is to suggest that maybe that issue (if it even is an issue to you or your friend) would be better solved by introspection and understanding of yourself.

      idk, i'm not a therapist and i'm all fucked up too. i feel in over my head here.