I’m in the prime of my youth, and that’s basically my whole dating history. Not to sound like an incel but being alone and constantly rejected fucking hurts, it just sucks so much.

I guess you could say I’m still so young or whatever but that’s even worse because like I’m supposed to be dating and having sex and having fun at this age lmao. And soon enough I’m going to reach a point where my lack of experience is going to be unattractive, I’m definitely looking forward to that.

I just want love. :doomjak: Not to get too “we live in a society” but maybe this world/society isn’t meant for love and lovers. In which case I’d rather not exist here anymore.

  • AFineWayToDie [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    "Dating" is kind of a weird concept. Most of the couples I've known started out as friends and later decided to try something more. Sometimes the best thing you can do to find love is stop trying for it, and instead just look for friends, or people with whom to do activities. If any potential partners come along, they will see you doing something you enjoy. Which is, frankly, you at your best.

    A lack of dating experience is also not the black mark it might feel like at first. It's okay to be unusual, as long as you're able to relate to people in a basic way. Developing your social skills - such as getting someone to open up about something, or helping someone feel comfortable if they're looking awkward - will do wonders for your datability.