So far I’ve got 0 matches in a week, whereas without “communism will win” I would be getting 1-2 per day.

Idk how I feel about it. I’m getting old, getting lonely, and sometimes just chatting with someone new, even if they end up sucking after a week or two, is enough to give me hope that I’ll find someone. On the flip side I feel like being more upfront would lead to less, but more meaningful interactions. But today, at this moment, I feel a deep loneliness and sadness that I haven’t felt in a very long time.

Fuckin hell. The destruction of the social fabric in capitalist societies fuckin sucks. Just wanna find a cool life-mate to spend my days with.

:deeper-sadness:

Yeah, I know there’s a bazillion other things that are magnitudes more important than this right now, just needed to vent.

  • axont [she/her, comrade/them]
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    3 years ago

    I haven't had any matches in about 5 years. I tried a dating service a while ago, but also didn't find anyone interested. At this point I'm just going to try and vibe. I think I'm happier alone, but I might just be coping.

    I had matches before then (maybe 1 per month), but never took off anywhere so I did what you did. I got frustrated and just had fun with it, put leftist stuff and pictures of my cats. Never got any matches after that, but I had fun putting the profiles together.