Remember, it's possible to like something while also accepting criticism of it. I know disabled comrades that have had similar experiences to this article as well. Asking for better access to the treats doesn't threaten the existence of the treats. :only-good-gamer:
You definitely are supposed to do other things for a while. Try heading south and poking your head in everywhere you can. I think they did a major disservice to players by directing them right to Margit. He's a very difficult boss compared to some of the things you fight.
I've done a few of the dungeons since then beating a few bosses and exploring/running for my life through a few of the areas. I found the Berserk sword, which is what I'm aiming to use eventually.
I should be ok it'll just take a bit. Got frustrated last night
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Fighting a Sif knock off with magic. Felt like I could kill him but he was so fucking fast.
So I guess now is a good time to just go back to the main quest I was pushed towards.