That forms the drive part of the death drive. You end up creating a negative feedback loop which only increases your attraction to those self-destructive behaviours. But if you keep it in or sublimate it, equally toxic if not more so. That's where it becomes a root-level radical issue for me. If an individual self-actualises tomorrow they're still stuck in a system where every collective pressure is meant to break them down so they can be sold the image of self-actualisation.