I don't consider myself particularly interesting, but I would say my interests are vastly different from the average guy on dating apps

I don't know how to say this without sounding pretentious, but I prefer intellectual conversation over nights at the bar or whatever. I just want to be able to share the thoughts I have floating around my head with someone, ya know? When I'm not on hexbear.net, I play guitar, draw, write and enjoy analyzing different types of media and digging into the meaning of stuff

Stream of consciousness slop, I know, but I'm super high and my thoughts are firing off. Can anyone relate or see where I'm coming from?

  • Nakoichi [they/them]
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    3 years ago

    Yeah one of the things that keeps me from using apps like tinder is a feeling that it's all fake, it's all crafted to some degree. I feel like if I put out an honest bio that I would sound like a weirdo. I just want to hang out and have some drinks maybe with another cool commie.

    I also grew up during a time when dating online was a topic of ridicule.

    • stigsbandit34z [they/them]
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      3 years ago

      Exactly. Like I feel as if my political views greatly shape my outlook on other things as well

      Throw in the fact that I'm ND and it becomes a total mess

      • panopticon [comrade/them]
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        3 years ago

        You know it might be cliche but I think this is where "just be yourself" is the sound approach. Would you really want to waste your time trying to be intimate partners with someone who's got shit politics or doesn't know how to dignify or respect your neurodiversity?