I don't consider myself particularly interesting, but I would say my interests are vastly different from the average guy on dating apps

I don't know how to say this without sounding pretentious, but I prefer intellectual conversation over nights at the bar or whatever. I just want to be able to share the thoughts I have floating around my head with someone, ya know? When I'm not on hexbear.net, I play guitar, draw, write and enjoy analyzing different types of media and digging into the meaning of stuff

Stream of consciousness slop, I know, but I'm super high and my thoughts are firing off. Can anyone relate or see where I'm coming from?

  • stigsbandit34z [they/them]
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    3 years ago

    I guess I never had to deal with these sort of issues when I was younger. Now that I'm living alone and have a bit more time for self exploration, I'm realizing what I actually enjoy is vastly different than whatever charade I put on when I'm out in public.

    • Cummunism [they/them, he/him]
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      3 years ago

      youll still need to be mostly honest, but you gotta massage the truth sometimes with a new person. And i didnt know shit about dating until quite a few years after high school but online dating made it much more comfortable to have an intro. Plus I wasnt going up to people in bars for random conversations. Bleh.

      Also, and i hate myself a little for recommending this, but Tinder works wayyyyy better if you pay for it. You can superlike someone and it will notify them and you dont have to wait for them to match with you and they can choose if they want to respond.

      • stigsbandit34z [they/them]
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        3 years ago

        Alrighty, appreciate the advice! I have some money to spare, so I might go that route :shrug-outta-hecks: