Most of it is comes down to Lemmy sucking as a platform. The real solution would be for a mod to simply edit your post by changing the pronouns to she/her. It's like how so many posts and comments get taken down for not having NSFW/CW when the sensible thing to do would be for the mod to simply add the NSFW/CW. But we're stuck with this shitty Reddit clone where users can't even create their own polls, something that forums had the capability to do for decades now. Mods and admins can only remove posts and comments, not edit them, so posts and comments that get enough reports will be taken down.
Most of it is comes down to Lemmy sucking as a platform. The real solution would be for a mod to simply edit your post by changing the pronouns to she/her. It's like how so many posts and comments get taken down for not having NSFW/CW when the sensible thing to do would be for the mod to simply add the NSFW/CW. But we're stuck with this shitty Reddit clone where users can't even create their own polls, something that forums had the capability to do for decades now. Mods and admins can only remove posts and comments, not edit them, so posts and comments that get enough reports will be taken down.