shoutout to that one guy here who lost his shit about pumpkin coffee and spammed alts with cartoon names heiling hitler

  • DickFuckarelli [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    Fucking agreed.

    All of my shitty social or interpersonal flaws stem from toxic masculinity which I had to dismantle brick by brick. First, by rejecting the systemic pressures placed on me as a man (basically fuck off if you think I should care about football or Metallica or anything else that makes the bros feel tough). And then, allowing others to define themselves around me as they see fit.

    I tell people, especially dudes, all the time, rejecting the patriarchy will directly make you a happier person and easier to be around because there's so much shit you don't have to worry about.

    • Lilith [she/her]
      hexagon
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      2 years ago

      because there’s so much shit you don’t have to worry about

      FUCK. YES. there is so much performative shit you men have to deal with what the fuck