Capitalism redesigns love to be incomprehensible because its incomprehensibleness allows Capital to thrive. Stuff I've been researching shows that traditional human communities are diametrically oppossed to the accumulation of capital wealth and the destruction of indigenous cultures was always predicated by war and the dismantling of traditional family structures.

Real love is actually quite easy to comprehend once it's defined. If you filter my post history by Posts and not Comments you'll see some of my plagiarism on this topic.

I might do another one soonish with specific examples.