haha, i never thought about it but totally. back when i was 19ish was when everybody suddenly had cellphones. at that time it was protocol to ask for the phone number and then, some short time later, ring them up to ask them out on a specific date (smooth, but serious) or just shoot the shit with them on the phone for a bit to see if you click in conversation (chill).
now calling someone on the phone to ask someone out or, worse, for a chat is like criminal pervert territory, unless it's an older relative or a friend far away without internet.
Tbh I blame online dating for making trying to meet people irl seem weird and odd now
It's the enclosure of the commons but for irl dating
haha, i never thought about it but totally. back when i was 19ish was when everybody suddenly had cellphones. at that time it was protocol to ask for the phone number and then, some short time later, ring them up to ask them out on a specific date (smooth, but serious) or just shoot the shit with them on the phone for a bit to see if you click in conversation (chill).
now calling someone on the phone to ask someone out or, worse, for a chat is like criminal pervert territory, unless it's an older relative or a friend far away without internet.
My own mother won't even call me for a direct conversation. Social media has fucked up communication well beyond dating