• OrionsMask [he/him, comrade/them]
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    2 years ago

    Funnily enough, I'm the opposite - my medically diagnosed autistic friend thinks I am, but my neurotypical friends (and therapist) often dismiss the thought.

    The thing is, my issues do negatively impact my life. I don't want to say anything ignorantly offensive, so apologies if I do, but I suppose it matters in my mind because I want to know if it's part of my personality or if it's something I have to create strategies for because I'm on the spectrum, if that makes sense? If it's because I'm autistic, I can read books, I can draw on the experiences of others, I can join support groups, I can take medication... If it's just me being a product of my upbringing, well, shit, I still haven't figured out what to do about that really...

    But I know even if I am on the spectrum, that aspect of myself isn't going to go away.

    • GreenTeaRedFlag [any]
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      2 years ago

      that is interesting. And yeah, if you are actually negatively affected by symptoms of autism, then yeah looking into strategies makes perfect sense, sorry if I was at all dismissive. Even if it was upbringing, I think anyone can overcome anything mental short of a disability given enough time, support, and energy. Not trying to be a "power of positive thinking" or anything, just that mindsets and behaviors can be modified with effort over time.