fuck you all can't even let the neurodivergent safe space be the fucking neurodivergent safe space
either I'm so deranged I can't see anything right (possible), or the farthest-left-leaning people I know of treat their 'undesirables'... like this. just fucking irony poisoned mocking high-school bully tier bullshit.
Either way, I don't want to live in a world like this. I don't know how but I'd rather be dead then wake up to an inbox full of scathing replies and more irony-poisoned bullshit . It's like each remark is a fucking scar on my soul and nobody gets it . There's no fucking hope in this shit world for me and there never will be.
No but like... no one hates you, we just have no idea what it is you're talking about. What specific ND bashing are we doing here? As far as I can see no one has been banned or harassed for being ND, only for breaking the rules? So yeah, if you just vaguely complain about the mods people are obviously going to think you're concern trolling. It's got nothing to do with you being ND so I don't see why you're taking it personally? We have a lot of ND people here and are a ND friendly site but we're also not professional therapists or a crisis service so I don't really think it's fair.
I'm sorry that yoy feel belittled. One of the core requirements of leftism in my mind is that nobody has a valid excuse to make anybody else feel that they are lesser. We have to try our best to work through problems like ableism but that process can't involve anyone treating anyone else as lesser.
"Hope you all have fun kicking puppies" is treating others as lesser.
I'm trying to do my part here and defend ND comrades that may benefit from that defense, but right now the ND comrades that I'm seeing as needing defense aren't you, they're the ones you're targeting.
There's no point in the process where I want you to feel shunned though, just as I don't want any of our comrades to feel shunned, so again, I'd love to make this into more of a constructive dialogue - is there anything specific we as a community can work on?
What is the problem though? OP has made nothing but serveral vague posts about some kind of problem but they never eloborate. What are mods supposed to do with that?
I'm not OP but I think the problem is there are a vague set of undeclared rules here that are constantly shifting, and unless you're terminally online, it's impossible to keep up. Some of the "rules" involve specific opinions or behaviors that I think would be worth hearing about.
I'm not talking about a "marketplace of ideas" for real wreckers to come in and :expert-shapiro: about...
Also, when someone voices concern, wouldn't it make more sense to talk about it in a non-dismissive tone and try to be an ally?
What specifically is bullshit? This person is having a problem and the five power users are in here proving their point. Maybe don't gang up on them and demand posts on your own time frame
I get it. This is the only place on the internet that has content that I dig, and it's a cesspool. I think this is mainly an online problem. I run into it in pretty much every group I'm in. Even ones that claim to be about peace and love. People love the anonymity of places like this so they can do drive bys on the "others" and they hit that dopamine button.
It's sad. I really want somewhere to go that isn't just completely saturated in irony and their own in-jokes. A place that when you call them out, they don't just say "it's just a joke bruh"
I feel like I'm tiptoeing around everyone else all day, but the second I try to be assertive, it's like I kicked a puppy. I'm never holy enough for the holier than thou crowd
When people engage in good faith, you engage, otherwise, it's best to just ignore it. As long as the mods are keeping out the Nazis and libertarians, I can deal with pretty much everything else or ignore it. Otherwise it's, ironically, abit of a game of ':mao-wave:' but that is every anon volunteer internet forum, so it doesn't make this place special. It's literally part of the medium. Unavoidable by it's very materialist conditions. Idk though, I've never had anything that got me banned despite bringing up issues before, so maybe I'm just not online enough (I am pretty sure I am too online).
fuck you all can't even let the neurodivergent safe space be the fucking neurodivergent safe space
either I'm so deranged I can't see anything right (possible), or the farthest-left-leaning people I know of treat their 'undesirables'... like this. just fucking irony poisoned mocking high-school bully tier bullshit.
Either way, I don't want to live in a world like this. I don't know how but I'd rather be dead then wake up to an inbox full of scathing replies and more irony-poisoned bullshit . It's like each remark is a fucking scar on my soul and nobody gets it . There's no fucking hope in this shit world for me and there never will be.
Hope you all have fun kicking puppies
Fucking shitheads
No but like... no one hates you, we just have no idea what it is you're talking about. What specific ND bashing are we doing here? As far as I can see no one has been banned or harassed for being ND, only for breaking the rules? So yeah, if you just vaguely complain about the mods people are obviously going to think you're concern trolling. It's got nothing to do with you being ND so I don't see why you're taking it personally? We have a lot of ND people here and are a ND friendly site but we're also not professional therapists or a crisis service so I don't really think it's fair.
I'm sorry that yoy feel belittled. One of the core requirements of leftism in my mind is that nobody has a valid excuse to make anybody else feel that they are lesser. We have to try our best to work through problems like ableism but that process can't involve anyone treating anyone else as lesser.
"Hope you all have fun kicking puppies" is treating others as lesser.
I'm trying to do my part here and defend ND comrades that may benefit from that defense, but right now the ND comrades that I'm seeing as needing defense aren't you, they're the ones you're targeting.
There's no point in the process where I want you to feel shunned though, just as I don't want any of our comrades to feel shunned, so again, I'd love to make this into more of a constructive dialogue - is there anything specific we as a community can work on?
stop throwing a tantrum, being ND doesn't excuse *whatever * this is
I think this is exactly what they're talking about. You're making no attempt to understand the problem, and belittling them in the process.
That attitude belongs on :reddit-logo:
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What is the problem though? OP has made nothing but serveral vague posts about some kind of problem but they never eloborate. What are mods supposed to do with that?
I'm not OP but I think the problem is there are a vague set of undeclared rules here that are constantly shifting, and unless you're terminally online, it's impossible to keep up. Some of the "rules" involve specific opinions or behaviors that I think would be worth hearing about.
I'm not talking about a "marketplace of ideas" for real wreckers to come in and :expert-shapiro: about...
Also, when someone voices concern, wouldn't it make more sense to talk about it in a non-dismissive tone and try to be an ally?
Nah, I call bullshit. We are pretty good at talking about concerns when they're in good faith.
What specifically is bullshit? This person is having a problem and the five power users are in here proving their point. Maybe don't gang up on them and demand posts on your own time frame
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Did you read the post?
I dont have time for tantrums and contextless accusations :shrug-outta-hecks:
Do you have time to be a compassionate human being? Or is scrolling through shitposts more important?
with this? none.
This is hurtful, unhelpful and without actual concerns or means of recourse. shitposts are absolutely of more value than this.
I think you're going through some stuff right now, I know I am. Here's a hug :meow-hug: . Solidarity comrade :left-unity-3:
I get it. This is the only place on the internet that has content that I dig, and it's a cesspool. I think this is mainly an online problem. I run into it in pretty much every group I'm in. Even ones that claim to be about peace and love. People love the anonymity of places like this so they can do drive bys on the "others" and they hit that dopamine button.
It's sad. I really want somewhere to go that isn't just completely saturated in irony and their own in-jokes. A place that when you call them out, they don't just say "it's just a joke bruh"
I feel like I'm tiptoeing around everyone else all day, but the second I try to be assertive, it's like I kicked a puppy. I'm never holy enough for the holier than thou crowd
When people engage in good faith, you engage, otherwise, it's best to just ignore it. As long as the mods are keeping out the Nazis and libertarians, I can deal with pretty much everything else or ignore it. Otherwise it's, ironically, abit of a game of ':mao-wave:' but that is every anon volunteer internet forum, so it doesn't make this place special. It's literally part of the medium. Unavoidable by it's very materialist conditions. Idk though, I've never had anything that got me banned despite bringing up issues before, so maybe I'm just not online enough (I am pretty sure I am too online).
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