I kinda just straight up told her, I thought it was an objectively bad thing to do. Flying internationally during a pandemic for a vacation was an unethical thing to be doing. I told her I wasn’t stopping her, just that I wish she’d acknowledge that like… it’s an extreme privilege that puts other people in danger.

I did think this way earlier, but it's now clear that most governments are going to make absolutely no attempt to stop covid from spreading. Controlling a disease takes coordinated national action, it's not something we should be putting on individuals and their choices as consumers.