You're criticizing a show you haven't seen for portraying elites as creepy pedos who treat women like objects. How do you want them to portray elites? Because aristocratic elites are creepy pedos who treat women like objects. The show also does zero of the titillating you're accusing it of. It definitely applies to GoT, but HoTD definately feels aware of the criticisms GoT recieved while staying true to the source material.