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  • President_Obama [they/them]
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    2 years ago

    These were my exact thoughts before I stumbled across the term "agender". (You might wanna look that up) You identify as a person, rather than a gender, no?

    • Slaanesh [he/him, comrade/them]
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      2 years ago

      Yeah that makes sense, like I don't make a conscious decision to present as male or w/e. I like my cloths, I like my beard, I like my nails painted. I feel like I work around myself being fat more than I work around myself being a gender. But like... why are these things a gender affirming thing anyway, bleh.

      I think agender kinda works. I'll read more on it.

      • President_Obama [they/them]
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        2 years ago

        :flag-agender-pride: the closest I get to anything gender related is shaving (I use a safety razor which feels positively manly) and jackets which highlight my broad shoulders.

        The latter is moreso that I'm confident in looking good in a masculine manner rather than preferring the masculinity of it in itself.

        • Slaanesh [he/him, comrade/them]
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          2 years ago

          moreso that I’m confident in looking good in a masculine manner rather than preferring the masculinity of it in itself.

          K ya that nails it. Masc clothing just fits me better and makes me more comfortable. I do want a nice sundress to lounge around and garden in. That shit is fantastic, just need to find one I can look good in.