The very concept of people being awful about disable people. It’s a reminder that the world views you as being lesser and i disagree, seeing someone actively say that thought out loud is a lot more triggering than the nebulous concept of “ableism” in the same way that the word transphobia isn’t gonna carry the same punch as someone actually being transphobic.

Again if people request it that’s justification in and of itself and it’s extremely simple to do. It isn’t our place to litigate the validity of that