I finally found a job so I am going to move out of my parents' house soon, in order to live in the large city where the job is located with my gf. I should be happy about finally becoming independent and being able to see her every day, however I only feel dread about the transition, the lack of free time for my interests (probably intensified due to my shit executive functioning) and the fact that I will miss my family. How did you handle such a transition?
Don't worry about it, as others stated jobs tend to radicalize you further especially the more disparity you deal with. Anyway you're going to a city, there should be all sorts of orgs there you can hook up with if you're really interested in going the other way.