It's not illegal, but it's still weird, creepy and potentially harmful and no amount of lambasting about "the problematic age gap discourse" will make it not true.
It's not illegal, but it's still weird, creepy and potentially harmful and no amount of lambasting about "the problematic age gap discourse" will make it not true.
:shrug-outta-hecks:
I could believe a lot of such relationships aren't for the best, but I was dating 17 years my senior @ 18 and 31 years my senior @ 28. With that background, I'm fine with it personally.
yeah nothing sus about a 35 year old "dating" a high school student :ursus-hexagonia:
Exactly.
When I was 18 and in college I dated a 33 year old. I was fully aware of what I was doing and of the age gap. Don’t really see what’s so problematic about it
The problems not with you but with the older person who, it seems, would date a 15 yo if they could.
Source?
If you, at 35, will date an 18 yo, what’s stopping you from dating a 17 or 16 yo other than legality? You clearly already find people that age attractive.
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16 yo are more like 18 yo than 26 yo or 35 yo.
So?
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No, there’s a difference between a 19 and a 35 yo that does not exist between 27 and 35 but would also exist for 15 and 35.
But there's no difference between an 18 year old and a 15 year old?
There is from the pov of a 20 yo but not from the pov of a 35 yo
Why do you think that?
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What flaw?
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I didn’t say if you date someone who’s this age you’ll date everyone whose younger. Obviously someone who dates a 19 yo (while being 35) doesn’t automatically mean they’ll date a 12 year old.
I’m sorry but what this tells me is that person would definitely get with a 15 yo if they could.