• Sea_Gull [they/them]
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    2 years ago

    I don't think I'd like being tested. It's not a good foundation for a relationship. As someone on the spectrum though, I'd love to hear someone's interests, so if somebody is into astrology enough to talk about regularly, I'd rather get the preview sooner.

    Just talk about what you care about on your date and see if they like it. It doesn't have to be overcomplicated.

    You like anime, bring it up sooner and see if your partner is someone into it too or if they'll dismiss your interest out of hand.

    • Findom_DeLuise [she/her, they/them]
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      2 years ago

      To quote Dan Bern, "If I tell you that I love you, don't test my love. Accept my love, because maybe I don't love you all that much."

      Related Dan Bern quote: "I like olives"