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My girlfriend and I have been talking about entering an open relationship the last 3 years. We’ve been together for 6 and had our ups and downs but we’ve been really solid the last two years. We love each other and I say our relationship is strong.
The last week, we’ve been laying ground rules for potentially opening up our relationship. We want to keep it very casual with other people.
Anyone willing to share their experience both good or bad?
The problem with "open" relationships is that typically one person will find it much, much easier to take advantage of the arrangement than the other. So it ends up feeling like it's only "open" (or significantly more open) for one person involved, which is just bad news all around.
The problem there isn't thst one person is having a good time, and one person a bad time.
The problem is that one person is having a good time and then not checking on their partner and making sure problems get addressed so they can have a good time to.
the problem is one person has a bad time because they are lame
Don't @ me like this
:carlin-pog:
this is a good point, and i think if that possibility would be an issue, that's a good sign not to try it. like, maybe you feel like you wouldn't be jealous if you were running your own game, but are you sure you wouldn't be if you weren't?