like, flaccid button and hard slightly under average at best. There is a lot of hateful comments here that make me feel like shit. Please stop. Not every comrade with a penis has a good one. I'm tired of being reminded I can't pleasure partners if I ever stop being such a loser I can't get a partner. Honestly, I don't even try. Button dick stops me. Can we please at least stop the ableism here? I feel enough pain constantly going "oh I want to ask her out.... oh wait, I can't please her" already.

    • scarletdevil [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      For real, the size isn't important at all as sex involves a lot more than just... um... penetration lol. It can be hard to reassure someone with a small dick that it's okay, as often times they think that you're just being "nice" about it. On top of that, there definitely is some trouble with a dick being too big, at a certain point it's just hard to handle. Some of the best sex I've had was with people with small dicks, and the worst I've had was a man with a literal anaconda for a dick. I don't know a good way of breaking someone out of their bubble and building up their confidence, it's not easy when these feelings have been internalized for so long.

    • jkfjfhkdfgdfb [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      maybe the solution IS telling people that worrying about it is stupid then