I think it helps if you organically form a group of friends instead of joining an existing one. Whenever I join existing groups, it just becomes weird because I don't know anyone's sense of humor, or I hate it but can't say anything because I'm just a random guy who showed up and everyone else is tightly knitted.
Idk how I manage this, but I’m even awkward and borderline socially incompetent on some discord servers 😀
my thing only works because it's a private discord server of largely neurodivergent people
I think it helps if you organically form a group of friends instead of joining an existing one. Whenever I join existing groups, it just becomes weird because I don't know anyone's sense of humor, or I hate it but can't say anything because I'm just a random guy who showed up and everyone else is tightly knitted.