and is going on a date with someone else tonight

we were together for 4 years

e: my moms bf broke up with her yesterday, apparently. anyone else getting hit with insanely bad karma rn?

feels pretty fucking bad ngl

  • StewartCopelandsDad [he/him]
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    1 年前

    It sucks. Similar thing happened to me (but not as bad) last year. Gf of 3 years broke up with me, immediately moved out but needed my help to carry her belongings out. Amicable, right? We both felt bad about it. Then I found out via shared calendar she was going out with a coworker. Felt like garbage for 3 months maybe? Drunk every night for a week. Now better but still a bit mad.

    • fuckmyphonefuckingsu [comrade/them]
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      1 年前

      found out via shared calendar she was going out with a coworker.

      Jesus fucking christ. That's rough, man. If it makes you feel any better, my ex from 5 years ago (who I dated for 5 years) ended our relationship by essentially stealing my car for a joyride, ramming it into a fucking pole, totaling it and getting a DUI. I was out of town and had literally been gone for only 2 days when I got the call from her sister that she was in jail. Before I left town I literally made her look into my eyes and promise me she wouldn't drive my car drunk while I was gone. :shrug-outta-hecks: So, at least she didn't financially kneecap you and almost kill herself in the process? This person never paid me back for the car, obviously :stalin-approval:

      • StewartCopelandsDad [he/him]
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        1 年前

        I actually did buy a car for this girl just a few months before we broke up! Not my preference but still a reasonably nice Forester, like $6k. But losing a car is way less bad than losing your car, plus there was no insurance battle (or court summons, etc). I was much more torn up about the breakup for a while - I wanted to marry her - but you know, goddamn it would have been way worse had we been married.

        So yeah these things happen, all you can do is give yourself space to heal so you're not too cynical. I'm still not 100% there but most of the way. Wishing strength (and supportive friends) for you.