BeamBrain [he/him]M to neurodiverse • 2 years agoDid anyone else ever get the social advice of "Just fake it 'til you make it"?message-squaremessage-square17 fedilinkarrow-up127file-text
arrow-up127message-squareDid anyone else ever get the social advice of "Just fake it 'til you make it"?BeamBrain [he/him]M to neurodiverse • 2 years agomessage-square17 Commentsfedilinkfile-text
minus-squareyearslongquest [none/use name]hexbear21·2 years agoWhat helped me was 'imagine what someone who was successful with girls would do, and then do that.' Totally fake. But it yielded real results. Thereafter i had real unfake confidence. link
minus-squareSoyViking [he/him]hexbear8·2 years agoI thought of doing that but then my stupid brain got in the way and convinced me that people would laugh at me if I tried and scared me out of doing it. Fun times. link
What helped me was 'imagine what someone who was successful with girls would do, and then do that.'
Totally fake. But it yielded real results. Thereafter i had real unfake confidence.
I thought of doing that but then my stupid brain got in the way and convinced me that people would laugh at me if I tried and scared me out of doing it. Fun times.
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