• AcidSmiley [she/her]
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    2 years ago

    Most people have some restrictions. You can't fucntion in society without some restraint on your sexuality unless you're ace. Consent is the main one outside of conservative / religious sexual ethics, and if you're familiar with BDSM and poly culture, you'll find that pulling more permissiveness and promiscuousness and kinky shit off in a wholesome way requires to put a lot of thought into finding out what exactly your partner(s) consent to. My experience when hanging out with people from these crowds was never that they're just freewheeling lunatics, it's just that they've found ways to guide and direct their urges instead of repressing them.

    • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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      2 years ago

      Kinksters invent kinky scenarios like free wheeling lunatics who fear neither god nor death.

      Responsible kinksters work through those scenarios with their play partners like bomb technicians trying to defuse a nuke.