Help me settle a bet plz

  • MF_COOM [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    No, that's a perfect alignment with gender. I'm saying the concept has no valence for me personally at all.

      • MF_COOM [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        IDK I kind of feel like that describes an enby no?

          • Changeling [it/its]
            hexagon
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            2 years ago

            That’s kind of the point. Anyone scoring 5 or below would be perfectly welcome calling themselves trans. Anyone not scoring a 0 or a 6 would be welcome to call themselves non-binary. But many people who consider themselves cis aren’t strictly aligned with their birth gender, either.

        • Changeling [it/its]
          hexagon
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          2 years ago

          Anyone scoring from 1-5 is welcome to the label of non-binary if it makes them feel more like themselves :hexbear-non-binary:

          • MF_COOM [he/him]
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            2 years ago

            Aren't we all already welcome to whatever label we want?

            • Changeling [it/its]
              hexagon
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              2 years ago

              Yes, anyone can call themselves anything. It would be odd for someone to call themselves non-binary if they feel they 100% align to a binary gender, but I don’t have a way to see into people’s heads to know that that’s the case and would never question someone like that. This is more a statement of encouragement for people who feel that they aren’t allowed to claim a label that would otherwise make them happy because they don’t see themselves as “non-binary enough”.