• chickentendrils [any, comrade/them]
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    1 year ago

    I had one partner who experienced this kind of dysphoria after sex, but it wasn't something they thought was normal and they got counseling and we worked through it. Unfortunately it cropped back up with their later partners as well.

    These individuals probably are experiencing something similar and I hope they get help, it definitely is indicative on internalized misogyny that they don't even consider it something with possible redress. It's just normal to them. Nobody would consider it normal unless their peer group and socialization are totally fucked.

    • Changeling [it/its]
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      1 year ago

      This is exactly the point. The people in the post are speaking as if all relationships are cishet and making generalizations about how all men view their partners after sex.

      CW: SA

      I can’t speak for the person you’re responding to, but the casual unspoilered mentions of SA in this thread have me triggered af so I’m logging out of this account for a bit.