See, we're all in the same boat here. All you have is all I have. I can try to see myself, which is really hard and works better when someone that can see me describes what they see...then I can decide myself what it is that's in the way of what I want. Then I can do something about it. You gotta take things one at a time and take the time.

One thing about living in the US is that people don't see their effort or time as valuable, it's about making labor cheap and fast. If you could see the result of your effort as valuable, it wouldn't be long before you started seeing all your problems in the light of making the effort and taking your own time and then you get the results all to yourself. Then self work is just another day and you get all the results.

Your effort matters and is valuable and it's easy to see it when you do it yourself. :soviet-heart: