Join an org but I would say don't join an org with making friends as your first or even a high priority
Building connections should be a top priority but imo, org work should be treated like a workplace (one that isn't capitalist soul drain). Keep things professional and put an honest effort in. Try to not let personal drama ruin the dynamics of the org
You make a good point. We shouldn’t try to make our cause become drone-like like liberal think tanks. However, I would say that sentiment should be more applicable to broader organizations like a socialist party where people are seeking to change not just the economy but also the nature of social interactions.
If the organization you’re attending is something specific like food banks, animal shelter, etc. then maybe go with the flow to avoid disruption and socialize whenever you can.
I mean I don't really think you should be doing any of these things with the primary aim of making friends, but rather to live a rich and varied life interacting with other people and pursuing your interests. But ultimately this is how new friends are made, by going out and engaging with people socially until you meet people you click with.
Join an org but I would say don't join an org with making friends as your first or even a high priority
Building connections should be a top priority but imo, org work should be treated like a workplace (one that isn't capitalist soul drain). Keep things professional and put an honest effort in. Try to not let personal drama ruin the dynamics of the org
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You make a good point. We shouldn’t try to make our cause become drone-like like liberal think tanks. However, I would say that sentiment should be more applicable to broader organizations like a socialist party where people are seeking to change not just the economy but also the nature of social interactions.
If the organization you’re attending is something specific like food banks, animal shelter, etc. then maybe go with the flow to avoid disruption and socialize whenever you can.
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Yes I agree
Funny, that's exactly what Christian missionaries did when they were sent to distant lands.
I mean I don't really think you should be doing any of these things with the primary aim of making friends, but rather to live a rich and varied life interacting with other people and pursuing your interests. But ultimately this is how new friends are made, by going out and engaging with people socially until you meet people you click with.
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