the one I think of immediately is that my dad would always say “stop being such a girl” when I complained about things. I picked up the phrase when I was young without thinking about it
then I said it to someone in elementary school and they said “what’s wrong with being a girl” and I was like wait yeah wtf why am I saying this
that makes a lot of sense. i'd grown up with a lot of shame attached to sex in general but i can see how this would poison your idea of attraction