Sorry if this is the wrong comm, but I had to get this off my chest. I am so sick and tired of dealing with bi-erasure. I am a bisexual man who is I'd say 90% attracted to women and 10% attracted to men. Best I can explain it, I am mostly attracted to women and occasionally attracted to a man. It really is that simple, but for a lot of people I might as well be explaining calculus. I understand if most straight people can't fathom it, after all they are straight. But what really irks me is when other LGBT people erase it, telling me I am "in the closet" or whatever. It makes me so damn angry because I am not in the closet, I am open about my bisexuality, yet no one believes it. I have only dated women, but everyone in my life off and online including my gf who herself is LGBTQ+ thinks I am gay. I'm so sick of it I think I'll either just tell people I am straight or become gay.

  • Casscity [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    I have so many problematic opinions about this topic

    What are these opinions? If its that I am a closeted gay guy don't answer or I'll get really mad lol.

    • hahafuck [they/them]
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      1 year ago

      My opinions are more about this discourse generally than you personally. All I'll say is, and this coming from a bisexual who identifies as gay, is it really so bad a thing to be called gay? That it makes you really mad?