my take on assimilation into whiteness is more along the lines of consciously shaping aspects of one's life to correlate with the white narrative that promises sex, power and success by default.

the narrative falls apart upon contact with reality and the result is that asian dudes end up in the manosphere next to the incels wondering what went wrong, difference being that asian manosphere thinks that they can tick boxes off a checklist and sigma grindset their way out of sexual emasculation. unfortunately, the checklist that they're using is still part of the white narrative that they by definition cannot belong to.

i can understand why the discourse around the situation might be upsetting and call for a more delicate touch than mine. maybe it's because i'm not really on twitter, but i just can't see the boba libs as people, so their opinions don't really carry any weight with me.