It seems to mostly be other trans people doing the complaining which is weird

It's not surprising, reddit has its share of insufferable self-hating assimilationists who live in mortal fear of other parts of the community "making trans ppl look cringe", so they go and police non-passing (or, more often than not, simply not conventionally attractive) trans women or trans women who act too cutesy and girly or anybody posting :gui-trans: or :trans-hammer-sickle:

Usually they're pathetic fucks who still boymode after 3 years on HRT because they (wrongly) think they will never pass without FFS and that they're not allowed to be visibly trans when they're not living up to their ridiculous standards of what a respectable transsexual has to be like. And yes, ofc they're usually truscum, even though none of them would've ever gotten hormones back when there still was the gatekeeping that they are nostalgic for.

They can all go fuck themselves, i'm not a catgirl but making meowing noises when i'm chilling with my girls is fun and these piss fiends can take my uWus from my cold, dead paws. Also the friend of mine who started us doing that stuff isn't even a trans woman.