Recently I bought a bunch of conventionally feminine clothes that actually fit me and I want to wear some to work but my anxiety has me in a stranglehold. I normally dress pretty androgynously and anyone under the age of 30 could look at me and tell I'm a trans woman but my I'm not actually out at work. You would think seeing your amab employee coming to work in a choker, women's pants and a D-cup bra would raise an eyebrow but I work with some of the most clueless people in existence.

I've been pushing the boundaries more and more the past few years but I need some encouragement to take another leap. I'm scared of what my bosses will say.