Recently I bought a bunch of conventionally feminine clothes that actually fit me and I want to wear some to work but my anxiety has me in a stranglehold. I normally dress pretty androgynously and anyone under the age of 30 could look at me and tell I'm a trans woman but my I'm not actually out at work. You would think seeing your amab employee coming to work in a choker, women's pants and a D-cup bra would raise an eyebrow but I work with some of the most clueless people in existence.
I've been pushing the boundaries more and more the past few years but I need some encouragement to take another leap. I'm scared of what my bosses will say.
You're gonna be fine, comrade. You've got this! Be your best self, the one you want to be!