I was kind of passively monogamous until hooking up with a polyamorous woman on Tinder. I started a relationship with her and even though I made some attempts at dating other people, this mostly just became her having sex with other guys and me being involved with her exclusively. But I found out that I have zero jealousy, like none at all, as long as she had the time and attention for me. I found out a lot about myself that I didn't expect.
So, anyway, I wanted to create a thread about positive experiences with polyamory, due to a thread on the test instance.
was in a long distance polyam relationship for almost a decade, starting when I was a teen on the net (do not recommend this particular part - I was very lucky that everyone was who they said they were). Became very short distance with a couple of em, eventually fell out of love with all of em (as is fairly typical for teen romances that last that long). Happy to still call some of them my best friends, also fine knowing that I'll never see others again.