I dunno. This post is basically asking us to do therapy for the OP because they won't or can't pay for therapy. The responses are either going to be platitudes or this, which is basically saying you have to actually try and engage with people to get something rewarding, not just expect them to be interesting for you.
that's... simply not true. like, c'mon. it takes work to reach out to other people but you're allowed to just be bored
and either way, the comment is terrible advice. it sounds good to people who are both neurotypical and only reading it on a surface level, but this is still the social equivalent of "dodge better". it's not actual advice, it's a judgement.
it could AT LEAST be framed less judgementally. the last thing someone who is obviously going through a rough spot needs is to be called arrogant.
wth is this comment and how did it get upvotes, they just insult the op and tell them to take acid
I dunno. This post is basically asking us to do therapy for the OP because they won't or can't pay for therapy. The responses are either going to be platitudes or this, which is basically saying you have to actually try and engage with people to get something rewarding, not just expect them to be interesting for you.
that's... simply not true. like, c'mon. it takes work to reach out to other people but you're allowed to just be bored
and either way, the comment is terrible advice. it sounds good to people who are both neurotypical and only reading it on a surface level, but this is still the social equivalent of "dodge better". it's not actual advice, it's a judgement.
it could AT LEAST be framed less judgementally. the last thing someone who is obviously going through a rough spot needs is to be called arrogant.