No, I just have some personal issues and I am vulnerable to people pleasing. I don't want a guy to pick up on my 'daddy issues' and enter an unbalanced dynamic.
I think older people can be attractive without it reflecting anything unhealthy about the person appreciating them.
I'm sorry if I gave off vibes of stigmatizing or judging. I just meant I want to reflect on why I'm drawn to older men and seeing what energy I'm giving off.
No, I just have some personal issues and I am vulnerable to people pleasing. I don't want a guy to pick up on my 'daddy issues' and enter an unbalanced dynamic.
I think older people can be attractive without it reflecting anything unhealthy about the person appreciating them.
I'm sorry if I gave off vibes of stigmatizing or judging. I just meant I want to reflect on why I'm drawn to older men and seeing what energy I'm giving off.
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I saw a quote about how fucked up it is that people are assigned 'daddy issues' as a punchline instead of putting blame on shitty dads/masculinity.
Right? How is it your fault if your parental figure was a jackass? And why would people mock that instead of trying to help?
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That was literally a joke in the movie Hot Shots. The psychiatrist played by Valeria Golino has a rubber stamp for "Paternal Conflict Syndrome".