I made two posts on !anime@lemmy.ml, neither are visible on both instances lemmy.ml [http://lemmy.ml] are recommending. beehaw.org [http://beehaw.org] has already become a much bigger instance and they ban lemmygrad, we’re already invisible to half the people using lemmy. It will keep getting worse, at some point you’ll need to maintain two separate instance accounts and you’ll consider dropping one of them.