I've probably been exhibiting alcoholism for 12 years. I've been able to keep it hidden from most people I know, but since I moved in with a romantic partner, it's been more obvious to both me and them. I need to change, and I've been unsuccessful for my entire adult life. It got worse starting in 2020, for obvious reasons.
I'm hesitant to bring this up to doctors. I've heard and read stories about organ transplant recipients being actively rejected (by doctors/social workers refusing to go forward, not in the medical sense of rejection of organ donation) because of expressing tendencies toward mental health issues (suicide, drug addiction). I don't want to tell a doctor or social worker that I'm an alcoholic because there is a built-in stigma against anyone like me. So, I tell them I drink socially.
I want to go to AA, but there's some christianity built into it. It's not something I could tolerate with a straight face, which would impact my recovery. I'm open to suggestions about how I can seek help.
I think one of the most important things about AA is the support net you could built with similar people so you can hold one another accountable.
You can also bring a friend / your partner to meetings, and you can laugh about the Christian shit after you leave. I bet they have experience with non religious people these days.
I think doing something is more important at the moment, so if you don't get any other ideas on this thread, I think you shouldn't get hung up on what's optimal and just do what's available.