I'm having this experience right now, and I'm not quite sure how I feel about it. Like I just moved to a new place, and I was really happy I met some trans friends here, but then we almost immediately started hooking up. Which is cool too, and she's great, but also I kind of just wanted friends. Not that you can't hook up with your friends, but things have definitely gone a little way past "just friends" now and I'm not really sure I'm ready for a long term relationship, but also she's amazing and very kind, and it's not like it's necessarily easy to find a partner when you're t4t in a rural place.

Idk this is all pretty confusing. Maybe I need to make friends with some gay trans guys so we won't have sex with each other, but tbh I'm not sure that gay trans guys would really want to spend time with me anyway.

Maybe the real solution is to move to a city, and then I won't have the issue of there being only one other 20-something trans women for many miles.