I mean, could you imagine???

my whole life I thought I was only attracted to women, turns out I'm attracted to anyone who's pretty

what a sigh of relief

  • AlicePraxis [any]
    hexagon
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    18 days ago

    though I'm also NB/agender so idk if "straight" was even an option anyway? but I look like a guy so being into women still felt kinda straight

    who cares tho gender is fake, if you cute you cute

  • LaughingLion [any, any]
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    18 days ago

    the older i get the more i realize that if i was single id date just about anyone if i made the right emotional connection with them

    the rest is just rubbing skin and you can figure out how to do that in ways you both like

    not sure what orientation that is and dont really care life is too short

    • Llituro [he/him, they/them]
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      18 days ago

      That sounds like being pan, or like a secret new type of ace you just unlocked. Not that it matters.

      • LaughingLion [any, any]
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        18 days ago

        sure i mean what matters most to me is the emotional connection and stuff

        all im saying is that were i on the scene for a partner my options would be open

        the older you get the more you dont give a fuck about a ton of stuff in life trust

      • Angel [any]
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        18 days ago

        I consider myself demi and pan, and what they're saying is very much relatable with how I feel.

    • AlicePraxis [any]
      hexagon
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      18 days ago

      I've definitely broadened my horizons to the types of people I consider attractive as I've gotten older, not just in terms of gender but body type etc.

      still not really into manly men but idk maybe give it a few years lol

      • LaughingLion [any, any]
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        18 days ago

        same i dont think ive ever felt any real romantic attraction to a big hairy guy but then again ive been involved in a monogamous relationship for almost 20 years now so its not like i spent a ton of time in scenarios where i was around guys like that trying to rizz me up or whatever

        im generally attracted to the feminine in a traditional way (my love has curves and all that) but i can see the beauty in almost all people so i think were i single id be out there just leaving the door ajar in my heart for whatever came my way and felt right and i think the world is better the more of us can do that

        realizing the worst thing that could happen is you figure out its not for you and then just move on is liberating not just in love but in a lot of other things in life too

    • AlicePraxis [any]
      hexagon
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      18 days ago

      not even dating anyone just admiring... respectfully

  • Mog_Pharou [he/him]
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    18 days ago

    Wait should I not have said straight in the hexbear poll if I like femboys? I may have committed light voter fraud.

  • bumpusoot [none/use name]
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    18 days ago

    I relate. Femboys are proof that all I really dislike is just stereotypical masculinity.