GaveUp [she/her] to

anti_cishet_aktion • 1 year ago

Did any other trans people have trouble dropping your cis persona?

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Did any other trans people have trouble dropping your cis persona?

GaveUp [she/her] to

anti_cishet_aktion • 1 year ago

I've acted like a cishet man for so long I don't know how to stop

I feel like almost every social interaction I have nowadays except with really close friends is just a complete reflex to be this fake guy I made up

It's especially bad when I talk to men so I'm also mostly avoiding all my male friends but obviously I would rather not do this

I don't even know who I am anymore

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morte [she/her]
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1 year ago
Yes and its driving me crazy. Im not really out to anyone other than a few close friends but even with the guy friends im out to i still do it instinctively sometimes and i hate it

I don't even know who I am anymore

Me too. I just want to take the mask off

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- Jennifer [she/her]
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