Urban Dictionary: volcel
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As opposed to incel, volcel is voluntarily celibate. It means that (usually) he can get laid, sometimes pretty easily, but chooses instead to avoid sex.

Please keep in mind that the Volcel meme exists largely for the comfort of our ace or otherwise do-not-want-to-hear-about-sex comrades. Please be courteous and use content warnings and spoilers where appropriate.

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  • President_Obama [they/them]
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    1 year ago

    It means a lot to me to know that I'm not surrounded by horndogs even in the online spaces I frequent.

    That's why I like this site and the usage of the CWs for sexual things, as OP stated. In an allosexual society, even though people view me/my posts that way, this site is the closest to an ace-friendly space.

    I never cringe at sex or kissing scenes, I just never understood their need until I understood that most people want to do those things and incorporate those actions in their relationships and emotional bonding with others, I.e. until I understood I'm aroace. Some ppl are sex-repulsed and hate those things, though.

    • joaomarrom [he/him, comrade/them]
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      1 year ago

      Some ppl are sex-repulsed and hate those things, though.

      Me appreciating the dialectics of enjoying classic rock but desperately wanting them to stop singing "baby baby love me have sex with me"

      • President_Obama [they/them]
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        1 year ago

        I just appreciate lyrics like that in the same way that I enjoy abstract art. I don't understand it, but it sounds nice.