Have any queer vibes to share? Here's your place! 
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed! 
Have any queer vibes to share? Here's your place!
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed!
Hear you. I would just like to mention that there are plenty queer spaces which accept you. You don't have to present like anyone others idea to be you. You don't have to present any way to be queer.
Even if you are trans there is no need to be passing (which is a critically acknowledge concept anyway). I do have to say that the trans reading that was pushed on this site was a good thing to further knowledge about Trans Liberation and the struggles associated with it. Including for some that feeling of not being enough to deserve to be part of a community.
Just realized rereading my post that it might sound like I'm talking about hexbear communities, which I wasn't, just others in my life at school and friend groups
On the trans reading thing I honestly disagree. I'm a stubborn person and being told to shut up and do something "because I said so" (at least, that's how it felt) rubbed me the wrong way and made me not want to engage, which just reinforced the repression I was already doing. Maybe that's just the acceptable byproduct of getting the non-egg cishets to take their medicine, but I can't say it was at all helpful for me.