• Yurt_Owl
    hexagon
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    11 months ago

    I want my egg to crack but society is so cruel. The best i can do is live in my imagination and disassociate

    • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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      11 months ago

      If you're trans or not you should totally experiment! So long as you have somewhere safe, you can try on girlie clothes, paint your toenails, wear a bralette, etc. Or whatever you would like your gender presentation to be. Even if you're not trans, going through questioning and experimentation is probably good for you (makes you cis+ we love the cis+).

      • Yurt_Owl
        hexagon
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        11 months ago

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        anyway here's a picture of my spooky croissant

      • Yurt_Owl
        hexagon
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        11 months ago

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          • Yurt_Owl
            hexagon
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            11 months ago

            For me I always wanted to be able to wear a sundress. I got one but the do shrek-pixel-despair when I see myself.

            • Hatandwatch [she/her, comrade/them]
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              11 months ago

              Have you tried a wig? I don't suffer much dysphoria (being genderfluid) but the euphoria a wig gives me as a woman is chefs-kiss

              I don't know your natural hair situation of course, but I lost that genetic lottery so putting it out there what helped me a ton. Now they're another accessory I can have fun with.

              A cheap synthetic can help with some quick affirmation but human hair really is such a better choice and there's plenty of affordable lace fronts on Amazon these days ($50-200 depending on length).

              • a_talking_is2 [comrade/them]
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                11 months ago

                cheap synthetic can help with some quick affirmation but human hair really is such a better choice

                Cheap, synthetic, obviously fake technicolor wigs are the peak aesthetic and i will die on this hill.

                • Hatandwatch [she/her, comrade/them]
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                  11 months ago

                  Aesthetically, absolutely! But I dunno if it's chin stubble or something else but synthetic wigs stick to my face something fierce. I can't stand that constant tickle and itchiness and otherwise discomfort, natural hair doesn't do this to me.

            • janny [they/them]
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              11 months ago

              something that I think people should think and talk about more is that if you go to an informed consent clinic for hrt you can just get hormones for gender dysphoria without it being more specific than that. so like you don't need to make the big commitment of "transitioning" and "becoming a woman". you can just take HRT and see if you like how you look/feel in 6months to a year and decide if you want to take it further than that, keep it at that point or just stop taking them.